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As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris.

And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask. What do I do? Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.

Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but it's coreplay... simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.

Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual. She Comes First offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make the mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara: "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how!"

Customer Reviews (5.0 / 5 · 5 reviews)

Henry ★★★★★

I'd read plenty of advice books before, but this one actually flipped the script and made the whole thing about her pleasure first instead of treating it like a warm-up. The chapter on technique alone was worth it. Wish I'd picked it up years ago.

John ★★★★★

My partner actually thanked me after we tried some of the techniques from this book. The chapters on pacing and paying attention to feedback were the most useful part for me. It's written in plain language, no jargon, which made it easy to put into practice.

Christopher J. ★★★★★

I'd read a few books on this topic before, but none of them explained the anatomy as clearly as this one does. The chapters on technique actually made sense, and putting them into practice changed things for us pretty quickly.